There is so much about polarization in the news these days, and many of us experience intense differences of beliefs and opinions within our own families, among colleagues and neighbors, and even with close friends. It can often feel like there is so much disagreement and division that we will never come together as a society. I don’t have the solution, but I know that fostering civil discourse and promoting understanding among individuals with diverse opinions can help us find common ground.
Civil discourse is the art of engaging in open, respectful, and constructive discussions, even when faced with differing views. It encourages active listening, empathy, and acknowledging alternative perspectives. Civil discourse is not about avoiding disagreements but finding mutual understanding amidst differences. Practicing civil discourse can foster a sense of community and collective problem-solving. However, there is often a lack of opportunity to practice these types of conversations in a safe and neutral space. As a trusted community institution known for facilitating open dialogue and understanding, I believe the Library is uniquely positioned to help fill this void. Through our Gather and Get Along: A Better Conversation Series and the Find Your Voice: Play, Laugh, and Share programs for kids, our librarians have organized engaging programs, activities, and book recommendations that introduce tools and techniques to help us find understanding and have more mindful conversations with others. I hope you will explore this important topic with us and come away feeling empowered to find common ground.
Lindsey Dorfman, Library Director
Read more about these programs and find resources to help you listen, grow, and get along in our blog.